It’s been a while. Lately, I realized that being a person who puts others before herself, it doesn’t work. I will still be a genuine person but I will put me first. No matter what you do, everyone is the main character in their own lives. So why am I treating myself otherwise? I’m gonna wear my plot armor on and be the hero for me. Because saving me is the important step on growing. There is a huge difference on people pleasing and actually show interest. Because one of it is for others and the other one is to just be present in the moment. So what, if they don’t like you they don’t like you. Move on. Is it better than draining yourself because you care others than yourself. Stop ruminating. Let it be.